The other day I seen a Twitter follower tweet about "arranged marriages". No one in the States wants that. But you know why "arranged marriages" have worked? I'll let females in on a secret...."FEMALES ALLOW MEN TO GROW ON THEM". This is why alotta bros, in fact, guys in general appear thirsty to some sisters. They KNOW that if they can just get they foot in the door with the finest of the sisters...they gotta chance. Its like winning the lottery or a gold rush. Some find it easier than others to get they foot in the door because of finances. We have all seen it. (by we, I mean brothers) We have seen some of the baddest (by that i mean FINEST) sisters, go out with the lamest, ugliest, of dudes and marry them. And what do they say later? "I wasnt even attracted to him AT FIRST." You'll never hear a guy say that. If he does, what it really means is, "he was attracted to her physically, but her personality made her wack until she changed it". Trust me, if we arent attracted to you AT FIRST...unless there is some typa major surgery, WE AINT GONNA LIKE YOU LATER EITHER. I dont care how good your personality is.
Bottom line, guys are visual, women are emotional. And an ugly, no account, no job having, non-spiritual dude can get with a beautiful girl as long as he somehow establishes a favorable emotional attatchment.
All that being said...the saying "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder" still rings true to me. I still believe there is someone for everyone on this earth. Its just due to circumstance, or maybe we havent lived long enough that many of us havent met that someone. And I'll leave it at that.
I tweeted about arranged marriages and after I posted it I did indeed think about how the couple did indeed grow on each other and that's why those types of marriages often worked out.
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ReplyDeleteI swear I keep looking at this post. One of my favorites from you.
ReplyDeleteHaha thanks. Im just callin it like I see it...
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