Monday, April 22, 2013

Some Smoove Hippety Hop...

Just posting 2 new music vids that im kinda diggin. The first is T.I., B.o.B. and Kendrick Lamar- Memories Back Then. I don't care much for B.o.B. but he was pretty nice in this joint. And of course I'm always gonna love the King of the South, and K Dot.

The second song is Fabolous- We Get High. I dont smoke, but I can still definitely vibe to this song. Enjoy until next time. PEACE.







Friday, March 29, 2013

Update On My Life. The Condensed Version.

I haven't done one of these in quite awhile. (I think my last post was January). Mainly cuz I've either been too busy, too tired, or too depressed. Anyways, alot has gone on in the past 2 months, but I vowed not to spend alot of time writing on it so ima just give you a quick condensed version. For any further inquiries or questions, all my readers have my number, just call or text.

So without further adeau...ill start with February.

February basically consisted of work work work and more work. So much work in fact, that I missed all my meetings for that month, except for one. Well technically 2 seeing as how I quit my job right after they tried to call me in on the last Sunday of the month. Therefore I made 2 meetings. The previous being a Sunday I wasnt on call. I just got tired of it, I had reminded my supervisor about my meetings earlier in the month, and I was feeling a drain on my spirituality which needs all the help it can get. I had an interview already scheduled anyways the following Monday for a job at UNCW. (which I didnt get). So I felt good at the time, but even now I still don't regret the decision I made to leave.

So March...I marched right into, with no job. I had another check due to come in the first weekend, and it was quite large. I believe they put my last 3 weeks pay on it which included overtime out the yin yang. I had planned my vacation (while I was still working) on the second week of  March, to go to Washington DC for the big JW event DC Takeover. The plans had already been set in motion for me to go, rooms, rides, etc. so I went ahead and went. Had alot of fun, met alot of people including some who I only knew from social networks.

At the main event Saturday, me and this one sister kept winding up around each other over the course of the night, so I somehow (I was slightly tipsy) got her number.

Lemme tell ya. This sis is all that, and a bag O chips. She's from Baltimore. Look good, dress good, smell good, good convo (the first time I called we were on the phone 3hrs), good job, no kids, own house, is 29,  and she's on NO SOCIAL NETWORKS WHATSOEVER.

Pure awesomeness right?.......F.......M......L. 

I feel like a complete BUM talking to her with no job. Yeah I told her bout my situation and she understood it, but still. I think this will be nothing more than a friendship for now at least till im back on my feet.

Moving on......the rest of March consisted of me putting in applications, resumes, and signing up with temp agencies. None of which I've heard back from yet. My Dad contacted my Aunt in DC, to see if her offer was still there for me to stay with her and look for a job there for a few weeks in April. She was still agreeable to it, but she pushed the time back to the 3rd week in April. So basically if I havent found a job down here in the black hole of Wilmington NC or the blessed Raleigh (lol), by then, I guess ima try an see whats poppin up there. Meanwhile I gotta try not to go completely broke, till then. Oh....and I almost forgot that i've also been going out in service. Im not pioneering this month but I have been increasing my time. Busy, busy, month, my hall had the C.O. and the Memorial back to back this month.

Which brings me to this week. The last week of March. Today in fact. I've blogged previously about a young (legal lol) sister here locally whome I had taken out on a date of sorts. Afterwards, due to several different reasons, factors, whatever, we had been going through an awkward stage. Which kinda culminated last week in a text blowup on my end (she gets under my skin and I dont know why).  Well she hit me up Thursday. I really wasnt expecting to hear from her again honestly. At least not this soon. We texted off an on during the day, which led to us going out to eat today (GASP). She brought her younger sister this time, but a good time was had by all. I know this because she is texting me as I type this. I can't figure this girl out, but I am glad that the awkwardness is gone.

Well...that was more long winded than I intended. Ah well. What can ya do? Like I said, its been awhile. I promise my next blog will be shorter. And more lighthearted. It is now well into 2am, so with that, my niggas and nigglits, Ill say goodnight. Until next time.

Wednesday, January 2, 2013

New Year? What?...Hold The Mayo Nigga.

Its 2013...yaaayyyyyy.....pfft. Whateva. Same ole shizznit just a different year. Least thats how I feel. I did learn a few things in 2012 that I'll keep in mind for this year. First and foremost, DONT TRUST FEMALES. Lol. I sound bitter dont I? I hate being so negative all the time, at least in my thoughts. You wouldnt believe it from the outside, but on the inside im the most cynical person alive. Anywho I digress. (Excuse me I havent wrote one of these in awhile). But uhhh...yeah, females. At least on 2 occasions last year, I asked 2 different sisters that I was interested in, "so are you and So and So dating?". (So and So being "Brother Always There"). On BOTH occasions, this was VEHEMENTLY DENIED. And yet....on BOTH occasions, it was later found out that the sisters WERE actually dating there respective So and So's. One straight up told me within a week, "sorry I lied, me and So and So are dating". My thing is....WHY YOU GOT TO LIE?  Both of these sisters, I considered my friend. I'm not asking if you're dating to tell other ppl, im asking for my own benefit. Im not tryin to step on "Brother Always There" toes, and im also not trying to play myself. Yet thats exactly what happens when they continue the lie, and im still going after them like they single.

So with that being said, (I guess you can call this a resolution) in 2013 I will not be askin a females relationship status, because it only leads to a LIE.  Ima just leave it all to assumption, guesses, and rumors. Cuz its not like getting it straight from the horses mouth is doing any good.

Oh....and im not done. How bout all the sisters last year that went and married those worldly niggas? I hope they choked on Sundays WT. I dont even know why they go to the hall. But its not for me to judge. I'm not perfect either (Tho thats the LAMEST excuse in the book), its just that as some of my readers already know that particular subject really pisses me off.

This one sister I was getting to know (talking to, whatever) near the end of the year, was moving from 3hrs away to only an hour and a half away from me. We still talking like yeah when she get here we gonna go out and chill n whatnot. Pffft.....Around the last week of her move, I noticed a particular worldly nig kept commenting her FB page sayin stuff like "my boo is coming home", " me and _____ were up tille 3am on the phone last night cant wait till she gets here", "nobodies better than my baby" etc. So I flat out just asked her, "Are you and ____ an item?".....  (Here comes the lie) "Lol I cant believe he put that up. No _____ is just a trip"....2 Days before the move, the posts from the Nig continues on her page, and now she responding to them with hearts and what not. So I posted a status, wasnt nothing big really. But a friend of mine commented on it wondering what it was about, and I commented back "These worldly nigs actin up and these sisters be letting them". After that, a day later POOF!!! I was unfriended, and havent heard from the "Sister" since. F'em. I hope she have 3 kids by the nigga and he leave her for a butterface white girl.

Okay now im done...heh.

Anyways...starting 2013,  Jan 1st exactly, I finally climbed out the dark ages and got a smartphone. I'm so glad I didnt have to get my numbers all over again and that they switched over easily, that would've sucked. So thats Goal Number 1 accomplished. Number 2 is to make this trip to Houston in Feb to finally visit my boy who moved there last year. We gonna definitely get live when that happens. Number 3 is to finally move out. I believe I've managed to save decently to start lookin for places. I just dont know if I want those places to be here in the Port, Raleigh or Charlotte. That all depends on Number 4 which is FIND A NEW JOB. Lawd knows I cant take all of the half assedness of my job for a whole nother year. I can write 2 more blogs of this length on that crap.

Those however are my goals for this year, short and simplified. And of course as always to work on my spirituality which is a never ending job with high's and lows. Thats all from me for now. I hope everyone enjoys another year of life. Peace.