Aight....

...Somayall might get mad...and I'm only writing this because I care....but you already knew this was coming lol... LADIES, SISTERS,......LEAVE THE WORLDLY MEN ALONE!!!!. They ALL cheat. Well I should say 98% of them. I've worked with worldly dudes for YEARS. Grew up with worldly dudes. HELL... I AM A DUDE. I've literally watched a worldly dude (My work/driving partner, 25yrs old) kiss up to his WIFE on the phone, then 5mins later drive to meet his SIDE CHICK and have me wait in the vehicle while they do god knows what. AT WORK!! ON THE CLOCK!!!  Do you really wanna risk the dude you marryin to come home one day and give you an STD??? EVERY DUDE DOES NOT HAVE A MAGIC JOHNSON, LIKE MAGIC JOHNSON!!! HE IS THE ONLY DUDE THAT HAS SELF CONTAINED AIDS OF EVERLASTING LIFE!!!!...And then you might say..."well Witness dudes cheat too...". Yes they do...but usually when they do (If they arent already riding the fence) they at least have the conscious factor involved. They will most likely tell you, the elders, grandma...whoever...what they did. There is no basis for a worldly dude to do so. Until he gets caught. And do you know how ALOT of worldly dudes get caught??? Their Un-Magic Johnson.

Secondly....WHY WOULD A WORLDLY GUY MARRY YOU? WHY SHOULD HE???....If he can string you along and get the kitty kat on the side, there is NO REASON that he will. If you dont give him the kitty kat he's gonna get it from SOMEWHERE ELSE and now refer to my previous paragraph...

3rd...WHY SHOULD HE GET BAPTIZED IF HE HAS YOU??? What if he NEVER gets baptized??? What if YOU make it to paradise but HE doesnt? Then talk about wasted years...

Lastly... WHAT IF YOU HAVE KIDS?? Are you gonna let your children go to Church? What if he wants them to? What about celebrating Christmas? Holloween? HE WILL BE THE MAN OF THE HOUSE.  Do you really want to risk the future of your children like that???

The bottom line is patience. Everyone is in a rush to find a mate before they die, or start falling apart at the seams. Because time is not on our side. We gotta remember. There is no biological clock that matters when Jah is involved. If we are still hoping and believing in his coming kingdom and paradise earth, without sickness or death, then we know we might end up being 240 years old, and still be having kids. We might marry our special someone at 240 yrs old, and he/she might be only 190. But we just had to wait on them to be born or resurrected for that matter. We just gotta keep that bigger picture in our heads and try not to compile unnesessary  and possibly "life-threatening" difficulties on ourselves.

Okay, Im done. I aint judging, yall are gonna do what yall are gonna do. I'm just tryina look out for my Sisters well being out here. None of this that I wrote is new news (I'm sure you heard all this before) but writing this out also helped me, because I've often thought about goin down this road as evidenced by one of my last posts. But yall are younger than me. Come back and think about goin down the worldly path when you're hitting 32.



P.S.  I know one of yall that reads this post is Twitter friends with my (worldly) homeboi (CS_Fresh) I grew up with. I didnt even know till I looked at one of his avi's...that he had a little boy...I just knew about the little girl he also has. That means he now has 2 Baby Mommas (that I know of). I promise you he's NEVER thought about getting married tho lol. Bet.