I think i'm pretty much gonna take myself out the dating game (Not like I was ever really in it anyways). I cant figure the game out, and i'm done trying. I'm not even gonna attempt to talk to a chick seriously unless we see each other face to face on the regular. I aint callin or textin none of these chicks in my phone unless they do it first, or I see them on the regular. I just dont have the time or energy to waste on potentialy unfruitful situations and other peoples problems, I got enough problems on my own, im sorry. Unless we really tight, I aint tryina be your shoulder to lean on. I am also gonna start listening when my boyz or homegirls tell me a chick is crazy. Best believe ima believe' em. Anywho... basically what im sayin is...my philosophy is now: "I'll see ya when I see ya". If you hit me up on FB or Twitter fine. But im only takin you seriously in person.
On a side note i'm kinda worried about my boy in Houston. I look at him as my brother, and we both have been through alot of the same stuff when it comes to dealing with the opposite sex. Even once had a girl try to play us against each other. (She shoulda known better). But im worried because he hasnt really made any witness friends in H-town, even the ones I suggested didnt pan out. And now when he goes out, all I see is him hangin with worldly chicks. A guy can only do that for so long without something bad happening. And he's already had that happen before. Guess I'll keep an eye on the situation.
I know how easy it could be for me to start doing the same.
I think that is a struggle we all have. EXCUSE ME only the ones that are serious in looking for a true/real mate. I'm praying for you homie. You deserve the best!
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